Tuesday, August 20, 2013

2012 In Review (Brace yourself, it's a biggie!)

It's been quite a while since I've posted so lets catch up. 2012 was a crazy, amazing year. It was filled with innumerable giggles and smiles, some tears here and there, and some awesome life changing experiences. Come, lets reminisce.

January: Dan and I celebrated our 1 year anniversary! It was unbelievable to us how quickly the year flew by and how time continues to whiz by us without offering a chance to catch up. Dan was in charge of planning our celebration for the year (he's got odd years, I have the even ones) and it was a blast. We had dinner at our favorite spot: the TACO TRUCK! He made sure it was romantical by bringing along a table cloth, flowers, candles, bubbly, and glasses for said bubbly. It was a pretty fun night and especially fitting since that truck watched our relationship evolve from a friendship to an eternal marriage. A few brave people approached us and asked us what was going on and were so excited when I boasted about what my hubby had done. The owner brought us dessert on the house (perhaps I should say "on the wheels" since it's a TRUCK) and asked to take a picture with us. He was pretty tickled by the whole thing.


February: This was a very fun month. We went away for the night to celebrate our anniversary. North of Santa Rosa is an historic hot springs resort, Vichy Springs. Apparently Jack London used to spend a lot of time here. The place was super cute and extremely relaxing. The mineral baths were QUITE the experience...it was like we were floating in a bottle of soda! After our night at Vichy Springs we took the scenic route home and drove down Highway 1, stopping to check out some weaner pods of Harbor Seals.

 We had stopped for a potty break and a random person
 saw us standing like this and took a picture of us!

Why might we be so happy? Oh! We just had lunch at a scrumptious 
BBQ place, Bones Roadhouse in Gualala. 



March: Dan had an interview with Touro University, Nevada in the beginning of March. We were able to travel to Las Vegas together for the interview. We spent three days there...one for the interview, one for business (investigating housing should we end up going to school there in Las Vegas), and one more for pleasure. While in Las Vegas, we were able to attend the LV Temple and visit Hoover Dam. The trip in and of itself was a great blessing for our family. The school was great and Dan loved the experience...little did we know that Heavenly Father had a different plan for us.
Outside the temple. This temple was one of our favorites. 

Hoover Dam
Hoover Dam

A bridge above the Hoover Dam. Looks pretty cool if you ask me! 

Inside Hoover Dam

Hoover Dam!

Hoover Dam's innards.

Dan getting ready for his interview. What a snazzy lookin' husband I have! 

I stole this moment without Dan knowing. He was walking in for his interview. I was, and AM, so proud of his achievements.

April: By far one of the best months of the year. On April 13 (Friday the 13th!) we found out that we were pregnant! Our pregnancy was confirmed a week later at the dr's office and thus began 5 weeks of a million and a half appointments to make sure my body was fit for pregnancy given the extenuating circumstances of my whole "one lunged-ness". I saw my OB/GYN a half dozen times, my oncologist, and a pulmonologist a couple times. Additionally, I had a myriad of tests run including an echocardiogram (SUPER COOL!) and a pulmonary function test. Everything came back stellar which helped lay the foundation for a happy and healthy pregnancy. 
        
Dan and I were so excited when we found out that we were expecting. This was something we had waited for for a long time and so to see it happen was truly amazing!




May: Dan graduated from Sonoma State University. We also announced our pregnancy! :) Later in the month we were blessed with the opportunity to visit my family in Cuba. It was such a bittersweet experience. I was so thankful for the chance to introduce my family to my husband (and vice versa) but was so sad at the realization that this would be my last chance to see so many people that I loved for a very long time. As nutty as those crazy cubans are, they are absolutely amazing and I am so grateful to know them.






June: We recovered from Cuba. Yes, it took a whole month.

July: July 19 was our ultrasound to find out if we were packin' a she or he. The night before our appointment we decided to have the results sealed up and revealed at our baby shower. Talk about a tease!


Proof that our little goob has had fingers in his mouth since the beginning!


August: My car got graffitied while I was in work. I'm a pretty lucky gal.


September: Baby shower! We were so blessed to be surrounded by amazing family and friends as we found out, with them, the gender of our baby. The baker received our sealed results and colored a layer of frosting within the cake in correspondence with the baby's gender. As we cut into the cake we were both filled with SOOO much excitement and gratitude! It's a boy!! And then to be showered with so many generous gifts humbled us both SO much. Thank you to all!



October: Dan's cousin, Rachel, got married in Monterey. We were lucky enough to make it a little weekend getaway. We stayed in town and putzied around for most of the weekend but took a quick trip to Pfeiffer Beach-- it has PURPLE SAND!
The beach was beautiful but SOOOO windy. The sand would whip around so strongly, it really stung our skin a lot. However, once we hit the purple sand, it was SO worth it! (Unfortunately those pictures are on another camera and have yet to be uploaded onto the computer.) 



For Halloween Dan dressed up as Quail-Man and I was Patti Mayonaise. Unfortunately we don't have any pictures. Let's be honest though, while Dan made an *AWESOME* Quail-Man, I did not do Patti justice. My blonde wig went horribly with my complexion and I was 8 months pregnant, lol.

November: We stayed in for Thanksgiving. With the arrival of our little one approached ever so quickly, my energy wained and we thought it best to stay close to home. Not to mention, I had to be to work bright and early the morning after so driving to family would make for a very long day. Instead, my mom came and stayed with us. She helped with some things around the house and we baked allllllllllllllllll daaaaaaaaaaaay on Thursday. I think we all enjoyed our holiday very much.

December: This is were the BEST of it all happened. My due date was December 19. It came...and it went. We had an appt with our OB/GYN the morning of and I was hardly dilated at all. We set an appointment for induction on December 29 and prayed that it wouldn't take that long. The next morning contractions started so we thought maybe our prayers had been answered! But then they stopped. And started. And stopped. And started. For 9 days. Yeah, I said that right: NINE DAYS!! The doc said I was experiencing prodromal labor. While most of my contractions were mostly mild, they were relentless. They would sit at 10 minutes apart for a while and then BAM! they came every two minutes. It gets old real quick. To make matters worse, I had back labor from the get-go. I never felt anything in my abdomen  even in the delivery room (the monitors kept registering that my contractions were itty-bitty until it couldn't register them at all-- and this was right before I was ready to push).  All of the pain was centralized in my lower back and was INCREDIBLY uncomfortable. Anyway, we reported to the hospital like good little parents-to-be on Dec 29  ready to induce. To our surprise I was dilated to 5 and 80% effaced! The nurses tried to send me home to "wait it out" but I resisted, and its a good thing. I had tested positive for Strep B which meant that I would need two rounds of antibiotics before delivering and each round takes 4 hours. Little Man was born 9 hours later. Had I gone home I would not of had both rounds.

Our nurses were absolutely AMAZING and the midwife was FANTASTIC! They did such a great job of helping us feel comfortable and at ease. We were truly blessed.

After a long night of progressing labor (didn't need the induction after all, thank goodness!) and after 30 minutes of pushing, our sweet boy was welcomed into this world the following morning. That day, that moment, is forever engrained on our minds and hearts. We are so grateful for the joy and love that he has brought to our family!







Oh yeah, we also got to see The Lion King Musical for our anniversary. It was pretty amazing!

2013

January: January was filled with learning the ropes as a new mom and dad. We now spent more time awake than asleep and it has been baptism by fire. Levi has been a pretty great sleeper from the beginning. While he obviously wasn't sleeping through the night, he would sleep in 4 hour blocks and that helped a lot!

Our handsome little guy began smiling around 3 weeks and has never stopped! He is such a strong little one and had great head control from the very beginning. Additionally, he has super strong legs and has loved standing up any chance he can get. 






February: For once we had a rather low key month! I enjoyed my time home with Levi and soaked up every moment!

March: Levi was blessed on March 3. Family and friends joined us at church where Dan, through priesthood authority, gave him a special blessing to start his life with. We were so humbled to have so much support and our boy is so lucky to have so many who love him! 
March 24th we had the opportunity to join Dan's parents, Chuck & Kathi, at church. Elder Jeffery R. Holland visited their stake that day and we were so excited when we found out that he would be there as he is one of our most favorite apostles. He has such a gift of speaking in a manner that is straightforward and full of conviction. Having the chance to be in the same room as an Apostle of the Lord is always a humbling experience! 


Levi also visited the Oakland Temple for the first time. 
I insisted that he pose for pictures but he wasn't much of a fan. 

April: I returned to work. The night before my first day back I cried myself to sleep. Surprisingly though I survived my return incredibly well. It helps so much though when you work with amazing, fabulous, and SUPER supportive friends! Even more helpful was knowing that my little squirt was receiving amazing care! Our friend Kasey watched Levi during the hours that Dan and I overlapped. She was fabulous and we could not have asked for anyone better. I wholeheartedly believe that the success of my return to work was, in large part, thanks to her. You can accomplish amazing things when you know your loves are taken great care of. She's heard it a million times and I could say it a million more times and it STILL wouldn't sufficiently express how grateful I am to her for the help she gave us! 



April is also when our lives got flipped upside down (but in a great way!) After much thought and prayer our family's "5 year plan" shifted significantly. Daniel decided that perhaps Med School wasn't the best choice for our family after all and looked into becoming a teacher. While looking at various programs we found out that CSU Sacramento had extended their application deadline for Fall 2013. Once he started the application process everything fell into place almost too perfectly. It was so clear that this was what our family needed to do. Thus began our move to Sacramento! 

May: Dan and I worked hard to pack up our small apartment and find a new home in Sacramento. We did a lot of driving back and forth between house hunting and school misc. Our last day of work was May 23 and we moved the next day. It was definitely a hard, hard thing to say goodbye to so many that we had grown to love over the years. 

We moved into a great little townhouse close to Dan's school. I have been blessed with the opportunity to stay home with my boy and be a full time mommy! My heart couldn't be happier! 

June: Dan started at CSUS on June 3 and Levi and I started settling in at home. Dan's sister, Michelle, and her 3 boys, came to visit the family that same week. We got to visit them for the weekend in Dublin and celebrate birthdays while we were there. A week later we ventured out to South Lake Tahoe for a family camping trip. Unfortunately the weather caused the trip to be shortened and we returned home after one night. The temperature dropped so incredibly low at night that all 5 babies there woke up screaming at some point during the night. However, during our short visit we hiked down to explore Vikingsholm. It was a great little adventure! 

A couple of weeks later, Michelle's family came to Sacramento to stay with us for a few days. We all went swimming and to the zoo. We loved having them here! 

Levi also had his first trip to the spray park. He had a TOTAL blast!! 



July: We had a great Independence Day celebration with friends, Danielle & Victor! We love fireworks! Levi slept through a great show. 

July brought lots of milestones for our little bugger. July 13, after spending lots of time around his big cousins, Levi figured out the "caterpillar" crawl and the rest was history! A week later he cut his first tooth. Just a couple days after that he had the full on "CRAWL" down. I was so proud of the little guy! A lot of kiddos can take a while to develop their crawling skills before eventually figuring out the "hands and knees crawl" and he figured it out so quickly. His cousins definitely helped with that (he wanted to keep up with them) as did the kitty cat. The poor girl gets chased around the house nonstop now! Thankfully she loves the boy puts up with a lot of bologna from him. As dumb and frustrating and as she can be, we definitely hit the jackpot.) Soon after he mastered crawling, he cut his second tooth. 


August: We are finally up to date. It has taken me months to get this done...literally. haha. I knew I had a lot to catch up on and unfortunately I had some blogging malfunctions along the way, losing a lot of work. To give you an idea of how long this has been in the works, I started it while living in Santa Rosa and have finally finished...now that we are in Sacramento. If you lasted all the way to the end, I hope you enjoyed the review of our lives. My goal from here forward is to post at least weekly, even if its just a few pictures. 



Monday, March 5, 2012

Chowder Day 2012


In a much welcomed twist in life, I was blessed with the opportunity to have Saturdays off during February. This couldn't have come at a better time because it allowed me to do some really great things that I would have otherwise missed out on. What are these things you ask? Well for starters, Bodega Bay's Annual Chowder Day!

It all started rather innocently. I was sitting in the break room at work casually looking through the Press Democrat (Sonoma County's local newspaper) when all of the sudden the word CHOWDER jumped off the page. I read the short article talking about the upcoming annual event held in beautiful Bodega Bay, realized I had the day off and immediately sent a text to Dan letting him know that he was to not make any plans for February 11th. If you know Dan then you know that he absolutely L-O-V-E-S clam chowder. It seemed pretty obvious that to be able to taste and judge 15 different recipes of this fave dish would be right up his alley.

I tried to keep the details of what we were doing to myself so that he could put the pieces together himself but I was so stinking excited that I spilled all the dirty details two days before. May I just say that his reaction was better than I could have ever imagined and will forever be a favorite memory for me. I wish I had a recorded it! Needless to say he was absolutely stoked about this pending venture. Almost immediately he started looking up information about when, where, and who would be at Chowder Day. This posed a small problem only because we were in bed and now he was wide awake. Silly me.

February 11th came and he was wide awake and ready to go before schedule. In fact, he wanted to leave extra early so that he could ensure they wouldn't sell out of tickets. The whole trip there all I heard was "drive faster, drive faster!" I hardly parked before Dan jumped out of the car and got in line. Thankfully there were plenty of tickets still available. With our spoons and ballots in hand we embarked on Chowder Day 2012. We came. We saw. We conquered. Then we went home.



Dan and I at the beginning of the day...still naive and hungry. That's about to change soon! 

Each place gives you 2 oz to sample their creation. It doesn't seem like a lot but its actually 3-4 spoonfuls. And remember, there are 15 stops. That's a whole lotta chowder!

Our completed ballots. Daniel was very thorough and methodical. He took notes on his phone then referenced them after tasting to complete his ballot. 

My mom was in town that weekend so she got to taste with us! 

It was a great day and a very fun event. We have zero plans of having chowder any time soon but it was so worth it! 

Saturday, August 6, 2011

sushi.

Dan and I love to go out to sushi. However, with great sushi comes great (big!) bill. In effort to still enjoy the greatness that is rice and wasabi yet keep a roof over our head, we recently decided to learn how to make our own sushi at home. Ooooooooooooh, what an adventure!!
Shrimp. Essential for great sushi.



Wasabi. The hotter, the better.


Dan had a very handy, dandy sushi making tool. Note the wooden pieces on top of the saucepan on the counter.  



He crafted some fine looking rolls.



I was so excited for the finished product that I failed to exercise the required patience to use Dan's handy dandy sushi tool. I decided to lay down a layer of rice on some Saran Wrap , place my shrimp and avocado on top and then roll it up. 

It was a great idea...in theory. 

our first family tradition?

Originally meant for posting 5/31/11...


Hallelujah. Thats all I can say. Its been six long months and dan and I are officially all unpacked. It has been a long and exhausting task but OHHHHHH does it feel great to be done! All of our things have a "home", all of our boxes are gone and best of all, our pictures are hung. Not many things in the world feel better than this.

Throughout the grueling task that has been making this place a home, we have established our first family tradition! We are both quite excited about this. I love tradition. love, love, love. I also love finding any and all opportunities to create new traditions and this was our first. Rather, it was our first tradition created together....as a married couple. We both have traditions that we have brought to our new family from our extended families (my personal favorite being adding a new christmas ornament to the collection every year).

Anyway, back on topic. Right after we got married we were grocery shopping when we saw one lone bottle of sparkling grape juice sitting on the shelf. We couldn't let that poor thing live the rest of its life by itself so being the selfless selves that we are, we adopted that sucker...or in other words, we purchased that bottle right up! The only catch before we could pop it open and indulge in its greatness? House had to be a home. Everything unpacked, put away and hung.




Our celebratory treat after a long night of picture hanging


The evening's entertainment
It took many afternoons and late nights but it has happened and we have happily indulged in the bubbles and all of its goodness. Furthermore, we have decided that whenever we move into a new place we will buy a bottle of sparkling grape juice as soon as possible and chill it in the fridge until we are completely unpacked (and everything is hung) at which point we will pop it open and indulge again. ;)

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Summer is here...

and I'm ready for it to end already. While hundreds of people would tell me all day long that they were so tired of the cool weather and rain, I just quietly shrugged and thought to myself about how much I loved it. Sure, it makes walking to work a pain but it also smells so darn good. Wait. Stop. Freeze. (That was for you, Daniel) I must correct myself. Post-rain NATURE smells great...post-rain homeless people, not so much.

I am not here to gripe about the heat and how much I hate it. Nor am I here to forewarn my poor, unsuspecting husband that he will not get near as many hugs or hold as many hands in these crispy months. So please allow me to move on.

We are slowly transitioning into our new ward. It has taken five months but we both have callings. Dan will be working with the Young Men as YM Secretary and Asst. Scout Master. He is pretty stoked about this. Man, oh, man you should have heard him talking about all the cool camping things we "needed" to buy because he "had" to have them for his new responsibilities. How on earth anyone ever survived without a pole-thinga-magig that hooks onto the propane tank and then the camp stove I'll never know! I love to watch his excitement though, it's much like a young child on christmas morning. :D

I will be working with primary, YAY! Starting next week I'll be teaching the 4-5 year old children in Jr. Primary. I am excited and scared all at the same time. This will not be my first experience teaching primary...however, last time was with 10-11 year old boys (all of which I babysat some years prior) and I was able to be a little more "casual" with them. Nevertheless, I know that my wonderful husband will support me in this new endeavor.

We are both still working like crazy. Dan is preparing his med school apps (frequent phone calls full of encouragement & love are requested and appreciated) and I am still working towards my teaching credential. In fact, I have a test on Monday that I should probably be studying for...

So there you are folks. Its not much but its something. More current events from this Athey household to come soon. Toodles!